5 Things which enlighten “Humbleness”

Someone famously said “You can build a world, without spending a penny, if you know the art of humbleness and politeness”

IRAM RIAZ
3 min readJul 12, 2020
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Being related to Marketing business from many years, I can firmly said if you are not a good listener you cannot be good speaker. Same in attitude issue, if you can’t bear the cruel behavior, you are not humble at all.

Always remain in bubble and in between selective people may be you remain in same graph of mood. Everyone can identify your ups and downs; you will be tackled by them. On other hand and big picture your patience and receiving should be far more persistence and normal towards others ill behavior, wrong gestures.

Some points are here as under to identify humble people

They are good listener

As I discussed above, good listener can understand and response more efficiently, rather than the person who are too much busy speaking in his/her own speaking skills. If you don’t understand the problem how can you tackle it? To be authentic first listen with validate attitude. I have come across by some debater’s interview; they admit that we derived our speeches on the spot while listening to others. When you listen you can easily identify the lacking point, may someone in speaking ignored. Healthy discussion is always take place where give equally empowered everyone to contribute and reciprocate accordingly. Humbleness engraves you, to clearly understand the person problem, with clam mind you fulfill his requirement rather than make the discussion transformed into dirty incident.

They put their demands secondary

Humbled people are keenly observed that they put their selves in secondary and other on primary. This does not mean never ever listen to you and always put others first let them decide for you, even you are adult. It’s mean while in matter of argument, don’t try to be selfish and cash the opportunity to disgrace others. We all have mood swings, psychologically proven if every problem tackled wisely it’s nowhere rather it discussed and procedure of handling multiplied in the society positively.

They make others life easier

They are less complaining and always ready to contribute in the society by all means. If keenly observe they are helpful to their family first, than in their official surroundings even where they socialize they can be identified easily. Like now, I am writing several of my friends coming across my mind who are always there for me in my crucial times.

They are very well aware of situations

This habit is also interlinked with above, how you can help other if you don’t analyze the situation, circumstances. They are best with ideas to adopt in the time of shock, sudden, and unseen disasters. You know why? Because our brain react far better way if we are calm, positive and humble by nature. Impulsive person rather make the situation more verse.

They are very much cooperative

Humbleness in not a branded fashion, so we can’t afford, in a click to our gadgets screen. It’s inbuilt in some people and with a passage of time it’s been taught by life. We in a material age think of it abnormal sometime, but life is beautiful because of these peoples. We should search them, entitle them. Let them excel into every aspect of their lives. To summarize all, we should be polite to them too, the one who serve us with politeness does not mean he or she does not need it in return.

Conclusion

In general we should all be in process of new times of realization. We should be very careful to interact with other. GOD has created us to be helpful and sensitive to each other. We all are connected and relatable so what we give to the society, it will revert to us somewhere.

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IRAM RIAZ

I am a teacher by profession and here to share my thoughts and understanding of different aspects of life with you all to make it worthy with easiness